Importance of Language - April 2025
Summary
The words we use send value-based messages and inform the way we feel and think about the world. Lived Expert facilitator Wendy, who has worked in Communications for over 10 years, explored the subjectivity of language, identity-based language, and why Never Too Late (NTL) uses unique language such as the term "Human".
Soundbites & Takeaways We Loved!
Language is subjective and it evolves over time, what is acceptable to say now may no longer be acceptable in the future
No community is a monolith; not everyone will agree on the best terms to use for identity and experiences
We have to be able to repair, we may not always say the “right” thing
There are multiple right ways to talk about identity, experience and systemic oppression
The way we talk about things may carry implications of blame/responsibility
How we talk about the experiences and connections of Lived Experts will send value-based messages
Our values can guide our language, see “Values can guide us…” slide for examples of linking Never Too Late (NTL) values to language
In the UK, there have been shifts away from the term “foster parent” and toward “foster carer”, learn more in the resources
Actionable Ideas & Activities
Read about language being explored at Never Too Late (NTL) in our Annual Report on page 15: https://www.nevertoolatentl.ca/annual-reports
Reflect on what your family or community experience taught you about certain words or terms (such as swear words)
Think about how you can connect your values to the language you choose
Resources
Language in fostering by NAFP (UK)
Foster parent or foster carer, the correct terminology by Nexus Fostering UK
You aren't lazy. You just need to slow down, article by Dr. Devon Price